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Thursday, 3 December 2009

Changing and losing identity

My bro's hp rang while he was asleep, and it sparked off this post.

Some of us really love chatting on the phone, while some wouldn't mind a quick chat or two, and then there are some others who just really ain't fond of the phone.
Some of us love to send out "mundane" sms (like have you eaten dinner, what are you doing now etc) every other day, while some would appreciate such sms once in a long while, and then there are those who would rather not have them.

And when you are in a relationship, and you realise that the other person is quite different from your preference, what makes of it then? Would you change? Or would you rather the person change to suit you?

Sometimes you try to change, and then you realise you just can't. Or maybe you were just not doing your best 'cos there was some form of reluctance/unwillingness. I'm guessing that it's probably so part of your identity that people will remark "it's so you". If you became synonamous with such a trait, then why would you want to change something that's so idiosyncratic of yourself?

Because if that happens, you'll end up losing yourself - your identity.
But then again, love is irrational and makes us lose ourselves isn't it?

Another of the inherent irreconcilable oxymorons of love.

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